Good guys

"Good guy finish last"

-anonymous-

 

This saying holds very true in a mans life.  No matter how sweet or charming a man can be the girl always goes for the d-bag. As I get older I continue to be sweet and charming. This saying holds meaning to a number of my friends. Now ladies how is it that you always say " Im tired of so and so he is such a dick, asshole, dbag.". But when it comes down to it you always run back to the same type of guy knowing that he is going to treat you like his own personal blow up doll? 

Now men wtf is wrong with us (some of us)? Why is it that we feel the need to treat women like they are our property? For one a women should always be treated like your queen, also no means no. Secondly never look down on a women just because she is a women see her as your equal. This is hard to do i understand but this doesnt give "us" a reason to treat women like trash. This is why "us" good guys are labeled the way we are. I hear this quite a bit from the women I actually talk to " All guys are the same." (No one told you to try them all). Not every man is the same we all have separate personalities, different bodies and different attitudes when it comes to life. Again I understand the guys you have been with have treated you like dirt. Im not going to justify this at all just for the simple fact that I have been there and done that. We as men can't change what men have done to you in the past but "us" good guys can make sure damn sure it wont happen again.

Another thing ladies stop blaming us for you liking ladies this was not a mans doing this is all on you. I dont have a problem with lesbians or gays but i have heard women say "I like girls now because of so and so.". NO JUST SHUT YOUR MOUTHS! YOU ARE YOUR OWN PERSON AND NO ONE MADE YOU DO ANYTHING! (Sorry about that it kinda pisses me off a wee bit) .....................................................................................................

 

Ok all calm and collected now. So this this be a reminder to all to all the ladies that keep saying all guys are the same. This is also for the men that think its a good idea to treat his lady as a inferior person. A women is a queen no matter what. To all the good guys out there keep your chin up. It may take a while for that "one" girl to come into your life but she is out there.

Inner Demons

It's important to face down your demons.

-Stephan Jenkins 

Let me start by saying that I am not a "perfect person" but who really is now and days. As humans we all have that deep dark secret that haunts us for a good part of our lives. I can honestly say I have none. The "Demons" that haunted my dreams and my thoughts were in a sense exercised. I tend to have a big ass mouth when it comes to my problems and I choose to write or speak them out. 

However "they" referring to certain people, tend to pass judgement on those of us that vent our problems. In all actuality they really shouldn't. I write this post because, a source of mine told me something about someone who she has known for years. The person that was spoken of has really done nothing but stab me in the back and look down her nose at me. 

Now, being the person that I am, I try to see the good in people even if wrong is done to me. I try and consider myself a good person and when it comes to my downfalls I've learned to accept the way I am. Let's just keep saying these "Demons" that I have lived with have come to bite me in my black little ass on numerous occasions. I kinda felt the need to name this person but then I remembered what my mother always told me. "People will act and talk to you as your friend while they are in your face. But at any given moment once your back is turned they will turn on you.". As I grow older I really start to see that this statement is as true as the air I breath. 

Now my friends I ask you what is that "Demon" that haunts you? Im not asking for you to tell me but I am asking that you face that "Demon". Because in the end who is the one that will always be there for you? Yes family is there and so are friends. But when you are laying in bed and staring at the white speckled ceiling, losing countless hours of sleep, it is only you and that "Demon".

I would actually like to hear what people have to say about this so feel free to comment on this I would actually appreciate the feed back.